Priya, the 19-year-old, wants to eat avocado toast. Dadi wants to eat leftover bhindi (okra). The compromise? Priya eats her toast while Dadi does not hide her disapproval. Later that night, Priya sneaks into the kitchen to ask her mother for the recipe for kadhi chawal —because her college friend loved it last weekend. Meera smiles, opens the masala dabba (spice box), and says, "The secret is not the spices. The secret is patience. You stir the curry until you see the oil separate."
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